Christmas 2025

It’s the day after Christmas and my tree is put away. The nativities are safely wrapped and stored. My coffee table is clean and neat. Floors are vacuumed. And only a few remaining gifts sit in the corner until we see some family later on.

Some might see these behaviors as psychotic. But I just can’t help myself. And Josh and the kids seem to enjoy the clean, uncluttered house as well.

And just because we clean it all up in record time, doesn’t mean we didn’t have a lovely holiday. Let me share a bit here.

First of all, I used a good bit of time on crafting. This picture above is a pin and beads ornament I made. A sweet friend commented upon seeing it, “oh look—it’s covid!” And I don’t disagree with her. Lol.

One of my favorite works of art is this tree:

It’s covered with jewels and broaches. Some are my grandma’s and some are my mom’s, but most are randomly purchased on Etsy and Amazon. It was super fun to make!

I also made this little one from a red, white and blue theme.

And then this one I may just leave up all year:

The kids all arrived day after day during the second week of December. Ruby had a little surgery so we cared for her and tried to stay at home as much as possible. Molly and I did some shopping one day. Josh and Mack went hunting in Virginia. My older sister and her family came for a quick visit. Josh was asked to share the Christmas message at our Christmas Eve service and Molly got to sing a special song. I was treasuring it all in my heart (after being a fantastic assistant to each of them—clothing choices and all that it entails! Which shoes go best? Listening to the devotion a gazillion times and listening to molly play and sing…not complaining. Just saying I’d make a great road manager if anyone needs one). Here are some photos from these shenanigans.

Rolo finally was friendly with Uncle Jesse!

We also took the family and Brooke to dinner on the 23rd. It was a fun night!

Christmas Day we had our usual breakfast and opening of stockings. Then we enjoyed opening gifts and a yummy dinner. It was a great day, and I didn’t take any pictures really. Just enjoyed being together.

If I’m being honest I was pretty much exhausted on Christmas Day. This is probably very normal, but it seemed everyone needed a lot of things from me over the past month or so. And I’m so thankful I’m able to be a help and that I have the health to help, but it does have a way of catching up with you! So thankfully a good night’s sleep and a slow day today has helped. I miss my routine so terribly. It’s hard for me to just chill the heck out in these “lazy” days when you don’t even know what day of the week it is. But I’m going to try to enjoy this season! Routines will be here before we know it.

It was a good Christmas celebrating our good God! Thankful for Jesus. God with us.

Still Carrying Me.

This Christmas will be our tenth Christmas in Charlotte. That is wild to think about! I can still vividly remember that first Christmas here—so many unknowns and the hard parts of it all were just beginning to hit. Ruby was 12, Molly was 11 and Mack was 9 (the absolute best age for little boys!).

This Christmas all three of our college kids will come home (for a very long break—21 years old, 20 years old and 18 years old). It struck me that this is our girls’ last college Christmas break! After this, Lord-willing, they will have jobs only-He-knows-where and may not be able to be home for Christmas? Or at least won’t be home for five weeks at Christmas! So I plan to soak up the time with them all and enjoy this season.

This morning I was listening to a song and one line says about God that He is “strong enough to carry me.” It took me back to late 2015 and the impression the Lord gave me before we even knew about this job in Charlotte—He was picking me up and turning away as He carried me. Once we knew we were moving, I kind of thought THAT was the reason He gave me this impression in my heart and mind. But once we got here and faced many challenges, I realized, “OHHHH, You are still carrying me through all of this!!” Loneliness, no church family, homeschooling not going like we hoped, unrelenting sadness, my mom’s death, raising teenagers, launching kids to college, continued church challenges, etc.

And this morning as my mind was thinking of some hard things that seem to rise to the top of my mind during the holiday season, I heard Him say, “I am still carrying you.”

Isaiah 40:11 “Like a shepherd He will tend His flock, In His arm He will gather the lambs and carry them in the fold of His robe; He will gently lead the nursing ewes.”

I love the Message translation: “Like a shepherd, He will care for His flock, gathering the lambs in His arms, hugging them as He carries them, leading the nursing ewes to good pasture.”

I hope you realize God is a good Shepherd. He carries His children with tender care. He always leads us to good places. We can trust His goodness and care.

{can’t seem to post the video of Cain the Band singing “Wonderful,” but you should go find it and listen!}

Instead, enjoy this 2016/2026 comparison pic!

Waiting.

It’s Advent season. As Believers in Jesus, we reflect on Jesus’ first coming as a baby through the Virgin Mary at Christmas. And at the same time we wait in anticipation for His second coming when He returns to make all things right.

I imagine we all are intimately acquainted with waiting. Not just in lines. Not just for our packages to arrive. Not just for the traffic to move.

But waiting for potentially life-altering test results.

Waiting on a spouse to get help with an addiction.

Waiting on relief from chronic pain.

Waiting on a child to mature in an area (or two or three or a hundred).

Waiting on a job offer.

I was reading James 5:7-8, “Therefore be patient, brethren, until the coming of the Lord. The farmer waits for the precious produce of the soil, being patient about it, until it gets the early and late rains. You too be patient; strengthen your hearts, for the coming of the Lord is near.”

We are living “between the rains.” Jesus came as a baby. We wait for His return as King. Early rains. Late rains.

In whatever circumstance you find yourself waiting, you’re in the “in between” time. The unknown. It all hasn’t shaken out yet. You don’t know for certain how this situation ends. It can be unnerving. It’s tempting to just want control. It’s a time we may want to shrink back in fear or lash out in frustration.

“Be patient” and “strengthen your heart” stood out to me.

I wondered—how do I strengthen my heart?

Psalm 27:14 “Wait for the Lord; be strong and let your heart take courage; wait for the Lord!”

Psalm 31:24 “Be strong and let your heart take courage, all you who wait for the Lord!”

Psalm 112:7-8 “He is not afraid of bad news; his heart is firm, trusting in the Lord. His heart is steady; he will not be afraid.”

Psalm 119:32 “I will run the way of your commandments when you enlarge (growth/strengthen) my heart!”

2 Thessalonians 3:5 “May the Lord direct your hearts to the love of God and to the steadfastness of Christ.”

Hebrews 13:9 “…for it is good for the heart to be strengthened by grace…”

It seems to me that heart-strengthening comes directly from waiting and trusting and replacing your fear with courage by choosing trust in God IN BETWEEN the rains. When you don’t know what’s going on. When you don’t have answers. When you’re unsure how God is working. You choose trust in the waiting, and in that very process that is sometimes so painful and hard, your heart is being strengthened. Your faith is growing! Waiting doesn’t have to be a waste of time, a twiddling of fingers or huffing and puffing with impatience and angst.

It’s an invitation to trust God. It’s an invitation to strengthen your heart in God’s good ways.

Be like the farmer who doesn’t quit sowing because circumstances aren’t perfect. They have a serious job that requires diligence and faithfulness to the task. And they must have a trust in God to do His part with weather, which is totally out of the farmer’s control.

What’s totally out of your control in that waiting circumstance you’re in? Trust that God will always do His part. Always.

The Lord is at hand.

May it be so!

Thanksgiving Day 2025

This Thanksgiving we had all the kids home by Monday night. And then we spent Thanksgiving at our friend’s house, The Peppers. They were amazing hosts! All we had to bring was the turkey—and that’s always been Josh’s job, so I made out easy!!!

It is so nice to have friends who feel like family. They were so kind to us!! And the time with them was so sweet. The food was amazing too! Sara outdid herself.

It was a HAPPY THANKSGIVING indeed.

And now it’s back to just Josh and me! And the house cleaners come tomorrow. Perfect timing!!!

24 days til Christmas……

The break was good!

Josh and I went down to south GA to visit Irvin and celebrate Jason’s 50th birthday!! I met Jason early on when I started dating Josh…so I guess we go way back to 1997. It was fun to see family.

The drive down was beautiful. Josh landed from Africa and we were on the road in a couple of hours! And we even stopped in Cochran to see our meeting place—Middle Georgia College in Cochran!

To think of God’s providence in getting Josh and I both to the middle of nowhere, Georgia for college is hilarious and was the best thing ever!

A big part of our story happened in that Huddle House. We opted out of actually eating there, but snapped a quick pic and kept moving!

We rode the golf cart, shot guns, walked outside, took Irv to a doctor appointment, and took the kids to a remote control park….it was a fun time.

Church was Sunday, then we had to leave to start the trek home. We stopped in to see my family on the way back.

More shooting guns! It was good to see everyone even if it was a quick visit.